MUSINGS
from life after birth
The expectations on mothers strip them of their humanity
The perfect mother ideal can only be achieved if we are robots, removed of our humanity.
How late is too late to change my where I’m birthing or my birth team?
It’s never too late to make a decision that will ensure your physical and emotional safety during labour.
What You Need To Know About Modern Mothering
I have just returned from two weeks "holiday" in Bali with my husband and kids. I say "holiday" because anyone with kids knows that a holiday is really just parenting in different locations. It's not the kind of holiday you may have experienced in your pre-children days..
Mama, you can rest, or you can burn out
Without rest you will burnout.. it’s just a matter of when. The trouble is, that we have been conditioned by our patriarchal capitalist culture, to hustle.
Small Ways to Practice Self-Love While Mothering
Small ways to practice self-love while mothering
Centering our needs as mothers is radicalised mothering
Being a good woman, a good wife, and a good mother has long been graded in our culture according to how much we give of ourselves for the benefit of others. We are so used to operating in this way, that it has become automatic and we don’t question it. It is a radical act for a woman; a mother to truely love herself. To love herself so much that she positions her needs as a priority. I wish this radicalism for you.
Putting the joy back into the festive season
For many of us the festive season is a time of added pressure and overwhelm so it’s no wonder that this time of year is riddled with stress and sometimes conflict. Read on to find out how to start gaining clarity over how you want your holiday season to look and feel.